The Cursed Blessing or Blessed Curse

sometimes we come across opportunities, chances, peoples and loves that we think are our salvation, our destiny, our only chance at life, we live with them as, if missed life will never happen again. we become slave to them, worshiping, agonizing over what happened, what was said, how was it said! and thus we begin to lose ourselves, to become something that we were not supposed to be! and then we miss the chance, we fall from grace with the person, the opportunity slip by, the love - unrequited.

feelings of loss, failure, and sadness come over us, life becomes a burden and we lament the missed chance, not knowing that it was actually a curse that came to change us, to take us away from our true path, from our destiny!

until one day we are forced to face ourselves again! and thinking of that chance as a curse, we remember our lost blessing once more, not knowing the truth of it!

and then we try out the new chance that was forced on us, waking up from our slumber, to realize a long time later that the missed blessing was a curse that caused us to move away from us and the forced curse was a blessing in disguise that we took as a curse because we were too busy lamenting for the past!!!!

and to end this all there is cute cartoon to make us realize the irony!

Sugandh